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Vaginismus

Clinical Hypnosis For Vaginismus, Intimacy Anxiety, Fear Responses & Emotional Relaxation

Overview

Vaginismus Treatment

Vaginismus is often driven by subconscious fear responses, anxiety, anticipation or negative psychological associations surrounding penetration and intimacy. This can create involuntary muscle tightening, emotional tension, discomfort, fear and avoidance patterns.

Many women struggling with vaginismus find themselves trapped in cycles of anticipatory anxiety, emotional tension, fear based protective responses or difficulty relaxing comfortably during intimacy.

Using clinical hypnosis and subconscious behavioural reconditioning, the Surtees Method helps rebalance fear based responses while reinforcing calmness, emotional safety, relaxation and healthier subconscious associations around intimacy.

The Surtees Method works by helping reduce anticipatory anxiety, fear conditioning, emotional tension and subconscious protective responses while reinforcing relaxation, trust, emotional comfort and healthier automatic responses.

Over time, many clients naturally begin feeling calmer, safer, more relaxed and more emotionally comfortable during intimacy, allowing physical tension and fear responses to soften naturally.

Hypnosis is entirely natural, safe and relaxing. You remain conscious and in control throughout the process.

What You Might Expect

Greater calm and comfort

  • Feeling calmer and emotionally safer during intimacy

  • Greater relaxation and emotional comfort

  • Feeling more physically relaxed and comfortable

  • Increased confidence and emotional safety

Aaron Surtees has been featured discussing hypnosis and behavioural change on BBC, Channel 4 & Channel 5.

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Client Experiences

What clients say

★★★★★

“Can only say that I wish I had found you a long time ago. The hypnosis helped change my whole mindset around sex, I've been able to have sex for the first time in my life with hardly any discomfort, and now 3 months on there is no discomfort and I can actually enjoy making love with my partner.”

Verified client · Vaginismus

★★★★★

“The 4 sessions of hypnosis have changed my life. I'm now able to have sexual intercourse with my husband without any pain.”

Verified client · Vaginismus

★★★★★

“I want to thank Emily for her incredible work. I had four sessions with her, but I could already see noticeable results after the first one. The treatment was tailored to my needs and has been incredible effective. Emily's approach was very supportive. I now have a completely different mindset and I'm so grateful for the positive changes I've experienced. I highly recommend City Hypnosis.”

Eleonora Chessa · Verified client

Client Results

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Real client stories, plus Aaron hypnotising on BBC, Channel 4 & Channel 5.

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Before You Book

More information

  • Hypnosis is entirely natural, safe & relaxing
  • You remain conscious & in complete control
  • All client data is kept strictly confidential
  • Debit/credit cards (incl Amex) & Apple Pay accepted

Session pricing

Founder & Clinical Director

Aaron Surtees

Block booking rate

£395 per session

When booking and paying upfront for 3–5 sessions.

Single session: £450

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Senior Clinical Hypnotherapist

Emily Hayden

Block booking rate

£350 per session

When booking and paying upfront for 3–5 sessions.

Single session: £395

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Most clients are recommended 3–5 sessions, depending on their individual needs and goals.

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